Shes evil but i love her.

[aetherr]

hey me and my fiancee have known each other almost 3 years and have been together 1 and a half engaged for 7 months
i love her with all my power and i worship the ground she walks on and i know she feels the same but theres one problem
she is evil

she regularly lies to me she is abusive we have split up countless times but i feel she uses me but for what i dont know

we have plans to have a kid when i finish college (i dont fancy a low class low paying job, its a phobia)
weve been through soo much i have seen her through being kicked out and disowned by much of her family for me and she looks to me like a father and i love it

but i cant take it she is a angel sent from heaven when things are good but shes never done anything for me and when it comes to it she wont i cant leave her its too hard and the frustration that she would say inhuman things and push me and sometimes hits me forces me to lash back and it skins me alive to the extent i hurt myself to vent and yes i know thats wrong but i cant think of anyother way to deal we are an amazing couple a testament to many broken ones but i cant take her selfidh disregard for my feelings and the fact she lies and regulary threats to cheat on me

should i break it off with her and how can i? or should i just care less??

pleas write back soon were currently on a break after i bit her and she headbutted me today

[noproblemo]

You should split up immediately your relationship is violent and abusive and will ultimately end in tears or worse.  Biting and and headbutting form no part of a normal relationship ever.

[Sadgirl09]

Sorry,but you can't stay in this relationship, it may not be what you want to hear but she's being violent to you. you don't deserve it. she's obviously no good if she's been disowned by her own Family. you need to think of whats best for you. I know it will be hard, but things can only get better

[loners]

I'm half inclined to feel that this is a wind up. However just in case it isn't here goes.
You're on a break at the moment, so I think you've made a great start to your future relationship with the love of your life. Stay on a break for now, and completely concentrate on your dream of finishing college with as many qualifications as you can possibly get. If you start to feel lonely because you don't have your girl around, go to night school and collect even more qualifications, and if that isn't enough see if you can get a part time job to cover the hours that you still feel lonely.
You are so right with your phobia, embrace it, and think of all the money you will be able to make when you have that high paying job because of all the work you've done to collect qualifications. Once you have passed your college exams, look for a job with a very high wage. When you are established there and had a promotion or two, that's the time to get back together with your fiancee, after all, you know she is an angel and only deserves the best, so make sure you are in a position to give her the best before getting back with her again.