I want him bk

[Chloe08]

for the past 8 months i have tried to get bk with my ex but he keeps making excuses up sayin he doesnt no what he wants but i have been reading his messages and his other ex has been txtin him sayin she wants him bk aswell and they r movin in together and i really dnt want him 2 he has said when they get the house they can try again but i no she is just tryin 2 manipulate him into havin kids with her so she has a hold over him but she keeps sayin she dont want kids but she is doing nothin 2 keep herself protected. i have a 14 month olf daughter with him and i just want us 2 b a family he is still sleeping with the both of us and i have tried 2 get her out of his life but nothin is workin i dnt no what 2 do can any1 plz help me i just want what is best 4 me n my daughter

[loopylorna]

if your man is worth it then fight for what u want just dont let him use you as well her sleeping with her cos you will end up being hurt more in the end

[Chloe08]

He is going bk 2 her he doesnt love me any more they r going to try 4 a baby in about a year n a half but i no she is just doing this so he never has 2 leave her because she is infatuated with him i no its not love but its killing me knowing that he wants this. i am movin in the next 6 months to get away from him and her because i cant sit around and watch them play happy families when he has other people to look out 4 like his daughter. i had a plan 2 try n split them up but i no it wouldnt work and it was selfish- the plan was i would get pregnant and she would leave him coz she cant trust him and that would b the end of it but i cant now i dnt no what else i can do i want him 2 love me and i think movin away will help him realise who he wants

[DirtyWizard]

No offence, but thts so stupid. Havin a kid jus to trap him? You'd be doing exactly what u said his other ex would do. Thats ridiculous. Dont move away, he wont gt to see his daughter. Think of other people but yourself.

[pudgeypenguinFTW]

what will that do bringing another kid into the world? Hes not with you now and you have a child to him,so what makes you think he'l come back for this kid

[gingerbec]

if i was you say to him, if you love me that much you'd choose me and come live with me. If he hesitates you know he doesn't love you enough to be with you :/

[bluehair]

why would u everrrrr want someone who clearlly dosent feel the same instead of loving him love yourself and move on

[Chloe08]

thats easy for people to think like that i cant love myself when im madly in love with him i just have 2 stop him from makin a huge mistake but people just tell me leave him to it he will realise what he is misssin when u move and it will all b different but how can i move away knowing he is attempting to ruin his life with this girl i have to think of my daughter i want her 2 b no1 in his life. im not gonna have any more kids with him i realised it was wrong to try n trap him into somethin that would only get worse