had a argument with my partner that ended up in violence what should i do?????

[loopylorna]

hi i thought my relationshit was great after having 2 kids with my partner but 2 months ago he went missing and come back a week later after being in oxford now we have had another fight which ended up in a little bit of violence from my partners side so i told him to go just so we could calm down but now he wont call me or nothing and i want him back but dont know if its the right thing to do i know im mad but when you love someone you cant help it advice please anyone i have no one to talk to over this as i have moved away from all my family

[Rbarrett]

i have been through the same thing and i knw exactly how you feel, leav him for a few days he is probably ashamed of what he has done, b ut before you do get back with him make sure he will never do it again and that you let a friend know what has happened incase it happens again and you need help.

[johnfranklyn]

Do you know why he went missing, where he went and what he was doing whilst he was away.

Violence in any relationship is not healthy, especially when you may not know what the other person has been doing.

He needs to be open and honest with you. He needs to tell you the truth about where he's been, what he's been doing and who with. Only then can you be informed and make a decision about what course of action you should / could take.

Are you able to contact your family?