7 Years old and out of control

[JDNEILSON]

He's 7 years old, abusive, violent, foul mouthed and totally out of control.

He was having problems at his last school due to bullying before we moved, Then last september the same bullies moved to his school in september.

From this point on his behavior and education have taken a downwards spiral.  He hates being at school and refuses to do his work, to such an extent that he is now facing an explution from school if there is 1 more outburst.

We have decided to take him out the situation and try to home teach him, hence eradicating the so called bullying incedents.  Only to find that he still refuses to do his work and his behaviour is getting worse day by day.

We have just done a coping with kids course and the methods we are applying just seem to be escallating his behaviour.  We are at our wits end with the lad, that can be loving and caring.  Yet he chooses to be obstructive and destructive at every possible turn.

please could you get in touch as we feel we need your help if possible.

BOOT CAMP & COUNCILLING???

Mr J D Neilson.

[lindanicoll]

i have the same similiar problem except mines is with my little brother he is 15 and off the rails he gets into trouble at school threatens to beat my mum up he isnt getting bullied he is the bully and it hurts me to see him like that he hasnt always been angry or aggressive i just feel he is out of control and need some advice or help along the way he is violent to me and my younger brother whom has adhd and has been agressive with my mother along with throwing stuff at her and calling her abusive names my mum has a disease called fibromyoglia and it gets her down.
she has tried everything with him but still nothing works i feel like if nothing is done then it will spiral out of control and really hurt someone

please help
 

[Katii]

This is the opposite for me i am the youngest out of me and my sister and she went of the rails at the age of 15-16, she stole, threats, moved out, put my mam and dads life on hold as they feared for her safety with the people she was hanging and going out with. i was 11-12 wen she moved out and hit her plenty of times as i seen her hurting my family and i grew to hate her. she is not as bad as what she was as i will stick up for my family and tell her to go away and stop being like this as she knows that i would get angry with her and she is scared of what i would do to her if she hurt the family anymore.

[minx]

heyan i have just read this so.

i have a diffrent situation

my is with my older brother who is 18 he used to beat me when i was younger. He then went onto drugs when he was 13-14 and it got wrose some nights he wouldnt come home but then some nights he would but he would threaten my mum and dad and held hem a knife point his druggie mates would threaten my mum and dad and he used to beat my sencond eldest brother who would end u couvered in bruses because of it. i know how lovly and soft and caring he can be but when he is on drugs he chnages. I love my brother to bits btu i hate his behaivour.

people are not alone. their are loads of epople whith violent brothers or sisters

[Han]

You know my sister had this with her son going off the rails at six at school refussed to do work became violent and abusive turned out he is dislexic (sorry cant spell it) once he got the help he need he settled right down probably not what your looking at but maybe a possibility hope you sort it out