looking for my dad vincent wakefield

looking for my dad vincent wakefield , i met him once when i was 13-14 things went really well but my mum wasnt happy about it! so we lost contact again ! iv been tryin to find him since the birth of my 1st child 8 years ago ! iv asked my mother a few times about him an all i get is the same reply " i cant remember" all i can remember is,,,, his from southend on sea or leigh! his about 40-50 , slim build an tall ! when i met him he had long hair! kind off a dirty blonde! think he has other children! he also has tattoos an was a teddy boy back in the day! also im 27 now so if anybody can help it would be a very big help! thank you x