my boyfriends an alcoholic and he beats me!

[clarecurnow]

iv been with my boyfriend (Matt) for 1year and a half now and this past year hes drank everyday! i cheeted on him half a year ago and since then he hits me from time to tome! he went and slept my best mate (Sharna) after that and she gave him STI's and gave them to me. while (Matt) has been cheeting on me with (Sharna) she has been sleeping with his 2 best mates and is now pregnant! I need to know if its matts or the other 2! Please help me i dont know what to do. iv phoned the show and txted it but had know come back. please help. thanks clare x    

[Admin]

Im sure they will get back to you at some point, give them another phone it can`t hurt..

[Admin]

if he hits you your really better off without him anyway. You shouldn`t put up with that no matter what.

[Yarsifa]

yeah you don't need a tv show to tell you that you're with the wrong guy.

You could also try other councilling and advice groups and helplines. A lot of people get trained to help people like you who are in trouble. Jeremy Kyle isn't the only one out there

[carsyboy]

Hi there donot know how this site works don't want to appear on tv been clean of drugs for five year only on methadone and other prescibed drugs for depression and phycotic intendancies. have not been recieving the help I need at wits end need help.

[mandie23]

clare from a mum talk to your mum and listen thats what we are for, she won't judge you even though it will feel like it at times. i had the same from my daughter dad except he was on a date whilst i was in labour with his daughter, the best move i made was out the door.

iv been with my boyfriend (Matt) for 1year and a half now and this past year hes drank everyday! i cheeted on him half a year ago and since then he hits me from time to tome! he went and slept my best mate (Sharna) after that and she gave him STI's and gave them to me. while (Matt) has been cheeting on me with (Sharna) she has been sleeping with his 2 best mates and is now pregnant! I need to know if its matts or the other 2! Please help me i dont know what to do. iv phoned the show and txted it but had know come back. please help. thanks clare x    

[Violet_Ivy]

iv been with my boyfriend (Matt) for 1year and a half now and this past year hes drank everyday! i cheeted on him half a year ago and since then he hits me from time to tome! he went and slept my best mate (Sharna) after that and she gave him STI's and gave them to me. while (Matt) has been cheeting on me with (Sharna) she has been sleeping with his 2 best mates and is now pregnant! I need to know if its matts or the other 2! Please help me i dont know what to do. iv phoned the show and txted it but had know come back. please help. thanks clare x    

Wow- you really are a perfect candidate for the show! I'm just a regular viewer, but girl- your's is one story where I would be on the edge of my seat & biting my fingernails, while anxiously awaiting the DNA results....

I would also be screaming at the screen 'Why the blinking hell are you with him?'
I'm guessing you have some relationship dependency problems- considering you have stayed with him so long & he's (1) an alcoholic (2) gave you STI's (3) beats you and (4) sleeps with your best friend. Is that seriously what you call a relationship? Because to any adults out there, who have experienced a proper, loving relationship, all you have is a drama...and an unnessesary one at that!
Give yourself a break- and most importantly, get some self-respect! Dump both your 'boyfriend' and your supposedly best mate and get a new circle of friends! It sounds like the people you are hanging around with are taking the p!ss out of you- NO true friend screws your partner and NO true partner screws your friend!

Don't worry about who the Daddy is- let your ex-best mate worry about that! After all, she'll be the one who has to deal with the sleepless nights, dirty nappies & lack of social life. You, on the otherhand, with a little self-respect & a few more focuses in life, than a bloke, could actually be doing more with your days & nights.

Stay with your boyfriend and you'll probably never be happy. It's obvious that he doesn't love or respect you- or else he wouldn't have done your best mate. And after you find out who the sperm donor is- will it change the situation? He still slept with her, still gave you STI's and still beat you.

Don't be a martyr- you won't change him- only he can do that.
Walk away, get a life of your own & be happy. Right now, you sound like a sad little girl who needs to grow up & grow some respect of for yourself. Be a woman & take control of your own life- don't depend on a man to make you happy.