just left alcaholic abusive boyfriend

[Suzanne Devitt]

a week now i have left home had to be got to friends house by the gurds and not for the first time. When he drinks he goes mad and i mean mad he try's to fight imaginary people he see's people Who are not there. One time his family tried to get his keys from him so he smashed up the back window of our car. He threathens to shoot me and the dogs he wont stay off the vodka wont stay off the whiskey. It has coast me a small fortune to get my own house money i don't have and now he wants me to invte him over. He wants to make it up and he cant understand why im  angry. sorry for venting here but i had to let off steam some where

Ok i cant believe that it's been 3 months since i left my EX it's not got much better i have been to court to get him to leave me alone. He had been hounding me on the phone via text and calls. Most of my friends are afraid of what he might do to me. He did go looking for a shot gun before and said that he wanted to shoot me.
So yesterday i was asked out for a few drinks by this man i know nothing in it just a few drinks and a chat. Untill we were followed around the town by my ex. He was screaming down the road at us he followed us to the next pub and i came home to change he then told the guy i was with that i was not going to return and vanished. It's creepy and a bit frightening i just feel so fed up. Why cant he just go away and leave me alone.

[johnfranklyn]

Its fine to vent your anger, we all need to let it out somewhere and its better here than somewhere that could get you into trouble.

I think you have taken a very brave step to leave a relationship like this, it must have been an extremely hard decision to make then actually carry out.

I certainly hope your partner gets help with his drinking problem, but is he prepared to admit he has a problem, if he is, then there could be hope for recovery, although it will take sometime to recover.

[mandie23]

well what can i say, this you are brave and strong and left him behind good on you keep up the will power,

a week now i have left home had to be got to friends house by the gurds and not for the first time. When he drinks he goes mad and i mean mad he try's to fight imaginary people he see's people Who are not there. One time his family tried to get his keys from him so he smashed up the back window of our car. He threathens to shoot me and the dogs he wont stay off the vodka wont stay off the whiskey. It has coast me a small fortune to get my own house money i dont have and now he wants me to invte him over. He wants to make it up and he cant understand why im  angry. sorry for venting here but i had to let off steam some where

[Suzanne Devitt]

  I feel so frustrated now went out yesterday with a friend and my ex started to try and start a fight. I had to go to the Guards this morning and press charges. I am now waiting for the shit to hit the fan he is going to go mad and I am going to get the but end of it could not sleep last night kept thinking that he was at the back of the house. He will try and get me to drop the charges as he knows the judge is going to send him away he told him he would lock him up if he turned up in court over me again. I did not want him to get locked up but i can not see any other way out of this.
He has had his friends shout at me when i am out and now he has come to my local and started fighting with my friends. Oh god i am dreading the out come of this one he is not going to be happy that i have gone to the Guards. I just feel like i cant do any thing right and so helpless at times fed up being the one who always has a smile on my face and the one who cheers everyone else up when my world feels like it is falling apart  angry at how everything has turned out so rotten just want to curl up and give up.

[lynda61]

I feel so frustrated now went out yesterday with a friend and my ex started to try and start a fight. I had to go to the Guards this morning and press charges. I am now waiting for the shit to hit the fan he is going to go mad and I am going to get the but end of it could not sleep last night kept thinking that he was at the back of the house. He will try and get me to drop the charges as he knows the judge is going to send him away he told him he would lock him up if he turned up in court over me again. I did not want him to get locked up but i can not see any other way out of this.
He has had his friends shout at me when i am out and now he has come to my local and started fighting with my friends. Oh god i am dreading the out come of this one he is not going to be happy that i have gone to the Guards. I just feel like i cant do any thing right and so helpless at times fed up being the one who always has a smile on my face and the one who cheers everyone else up when my world feels like it is falling apart  angry at how everything has turned out so rotten just want to curl up and give up.

Been there got the tee shirt sweetie so I know just where you are coming from but you have to try and stick to your guns I know it,s not easy when your scared but this idiot has to get the message that he can not treat you like he does and expect you to put up with it
Try and get some support from your local woman,s aid or some other support net work if only to let you see that you are not in this alone try turning your anger into something positive like telling yourself you are inportant and deserve better than what you are getting of this bully.
Good luck I hope it all turns out the way you want it to
Regards lynda