long lost dad

[sparkyb14]

my name is rachael gamsby n i havent seen my dad since i was 8 years ov age!...i am now 18 n i hav 12 brothers n sisters.  :|
5 ov them hav a different dad 2 me n they still see him were as the rest ov us dont see our dad n havent 4 about ten years   ...
i am the second eldest n am infact a twin lol my brothers n sister are younger than me n they really wanna find their dad as well as i do its jus so hard i hav bin tryin 2 find him 4 about 3 years now n no success i jus wish jeremy kyle could help me find him....i hav contacted the show but had no news yet    if i dont find him then i dont no wat ill do as my life is hard at the moment n all i want is 2 hug mydad n no im safe......please hlp me xxxx

[sparkyb14]

if i dont hurry up n find him then my life is gone cuz i cant live like this anymore...i hav got alot ov problems n every time i try n sort them out they get worse n i cant handle it anymore!...i giv up completely

[TLC]

Just a simple question... Do you honestly think your dad can help you??? With what???
I am sorry to say sweetie, but your dad is not the one to ask for help from.....After all these years.... He do not even know you and your needs, and will therefor not be able to help you at this point. You should get some help from other parts or other friends and family.
When your life is on track again and you feel stronger, then you can start looking for your dad.
The most important thing is that you are strong when you meet him..., because... you might not like what you find..., if you ever find him... (and if he lets you find him)
You know, it`s not your responsibility to find and get to know your dad... It`s his. He is responsible for you, and if he has not been there for you or your siblings the last 10 years... well, then I would say you are better off with him. He is not worth neither you or your brothers and sisters. Not even one of your thoughts...
I really mean that... Please get some help somewhere else, and let your "father" be, untill you are strong enough to handle the facts..
TLC

[Admin]

i am now 18 n i hav 12 brothers n sisters.  :|
i want is 2 hug mydad n no im safe......please hlp me xxxx

Im sure with 12 brother and sisters you will always be safe, your very lucky having such a big family like that.