JEREMY KYLE

[law1990]

I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT SOME OF THE THINGS JERERMY SAYS ARE REALLY NOT NEEDED SOME OF THE TIME.I THINK HE CAN BE QUITE BULLING AND GOES ON ABOUT HIM  BEING THE ONE WHO PAYS FOR ALL THESE PEOPLE THAT GET BENEFITS.THE LONG AND SHORT OF IT IS HE ISN'T THE ONLY ONE THAT WORKS MOST PEOPLE DO.SO HE ISN'T THE ONLY ONE FORKING OUT FOR THEM,IT'S JUST THAT MOST PEOPLE DON'T HARP ON IT LIKE HE DOES.WE AS A COUNTRY ARE LOSING OUT NOT JUST HIM.THE DNA SHOWS ARE GETTING REALLY BORING NOW AND THE LIE DETECTOR WELL WHAT CAN I SAY.I DON'T THINK HE UNDERSTANDS THAT PEOPLE HAVE FEELINS.I WATCH THE SHOW OFCOURSE I DO AND I FEEL FOR HIS GUESTS THE WAY HE TALKS TO THEM.I THINK GRAHAM IS GREAT HE DOES HAVE A NICE ATTITUDE TOWARDS PEOPLE AND IT SHOWS.THIS IS JUST MY OPINION.

I disagree with most of what you have said.  One reason being is these people need someone to be firm with them and Jeremy does that very well, if he never he would get walked over.  Jeremy does not say that he is the only one paying for all of the unemployed people he always mentions that people who work have to pay for the lazy people who don't!  Jeremy is brilliant and really does change people's horrible lifes, I think this in it's self lets you know how good Jeremy is at his job.

[amy-91]

i think that jeremy kyle shouldnt shout at people, they go on thier to get help and all he does is shout at them and put them down, also, i hate how he makes drugs look bad cos thier not when tooken responsibly thier just like alcohol.

[amy-91]

but wayyyy better

[Admin]

i hate how he makes drugs look bad cos thier not  when tooken responsibly

Amy your comments are ridiculous, You have hit a very sore point with me when it comes down to drugs.

When i was 20 i fell prey to taking ecstacy, anphetamine, canabis and just about anything else, i did this for about 6 months mainly due to everyone else was doing it and it was "cool" raving or clubbing as you`d call it now.
Plus my parents broke up and things where a bit crap at that time which was a contributing factor but not an excuse.

Believe me when i say there is no "taken resposibly" when it comes down to drugs. you might find it a buzz now but wait until sometime down the line when you they start to have a bad effect on your mental state.

i ended up in hospital twice from chest pains due to my heart doing around 230 beats per minute and was told a cardiac arrest was not ruled out. Not to mention that from that night on a suffered anxiety and panic attacks for ,amy many years, did i mention the massive amounts of alcohol my body asked for trying to replace the immense high from an "E"??

A friend who also did this at the same time suffered a stroke at the age of 30 (there are many long term effects that might not effect you today)

have a think about what i`ve said, and think twice before saying drugs are ok if taken responsibly, you have no control of the effects once that tiny tablet is inside your system.

[Han]

amy OMFG seriously drugs arent bad if taken properly if you wanted to get a rise out of this site its worked what an immature unresponsable comment what if a 14 year old came on here and was thinking they wanted to try drugs saw that comment and thought o its ok I can take drugs responsably some even being mixed with cystalised bleech o man seriously wrong.

[Admin]

How about that comment hey! they have no idea. Let me and my friends adventures with drugs be a "Serious Warning" and we are 2 lucky ones. Other people like "Leah Betts"  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leah_Betts were not so fortunate as ourselves.

[Han]

Yup my exs brother decided to try heroin and died first time user. Some people eh just dont think cant wait for a resonse from this one

[Admin]

how old are you amy-91??

[Han]

not old enough to understand the effects of drugs eh? Im saw 99.9% of the world population will try a drug of some sort but come on

[Han]

o admin can my name be in hot pink lol just thought id throw that out there

[Admin]

well it could but so would john franklyns lol!!

[Han]

hahaha ok maybe not a good idea lol

[Ade]

I have to admit right if he was to stand over me shouting in my face id more then likely punch him out but saying that he wouldnt have a need because im not a prick he does seem to do some good though. That whole drug comment thing your a very sad person to say crap like that. I took drugs for a year wasnt a need more as everyone else was but it left me with health problems

[Han]

hahahahaha lmao hahahahaha no you wouldnt

[Admin]

o admin can my name be in hot pink lol just thought id throw that out there

I`ve asked over at the forum that wrote usebb forum script to see if theres a line of code i can add or change that will get you that colour but leave others intact. I`ll let you know if thats possible..

[bulldog]

Reading the comments passed on this forum ones first impression is that it must be a site for the exclusive use of foreign nationals, the grammar is atrocious!  If ever a case was demonstrated for the use of compulsory sterilisation  of the under classes who infest the sink estates of this country, it must surely be the examples of  the standard of grammar that they use.

[Han]

You couldnt be more wrong.......

[justme]

jeremy kyle is a ubnoxious bully. i was on his show thursday and all he did was shout at me. he did not let me speak. i was there for his help not for him to shourt abuse at me. he thinks he is mr perfict when he is just a low shallow man. he needs to grow up and start treating people with respect. he has done wrong in the past. everyone has. but it dosent give him the right to treat people the way he dose. i felt so belittled on the show. all i was doing was finding out if i have a daughter. that all! yes im young im only 16 and got 3 kids! but im doing the best i can by my kids and thats all i can do. jeremy needs to sort his head out and grow up!

[Han]

16 and 3 kids I think I would of found it tough to keep my cool to. Dont take this the wrong way I didnt see the show so cant comment fully, but JK he is a good guy and yes has done wrong as have alot of people but he sure has learnt from his mistakes. At 16 your still a kid why have you got 3 kids??? Seriously did you not want to experience some of the world or of life before having children?? He does get mad a lot at people yes because its almost like the world has given up on itself people dont wanna work they dont have self respect they dont think before they act. I hope you are able to provide for your children fully thats emotionally physically and finacially being a parent is a fulltime job in itself and you have to be able to do that and more. I really hope life is kind to you and your family and god bless you all I will say one thing your a brave young person taking it on.

[justme]

yes i wanted to live my life first! ovcourse i did! but i made mistakes! if u asked me 2 years ago what i wanted 2 do with my life! it wasnt be a parent to 3 at 16! but im trying to make the best out of my situation. i am currently out of work because of the credit crunch. but i will soon get back on my feet. i can give my children everything jeremy can give his. i am no better and no worse than him. just because im at a young age dosnot mean im a bad parent or dont have the right to be a parent. i do my best by them and that all anyone can do. jeremy has no right to treat people the way he dose. he had ago at me saying a childs parents should be together to bring up a child. but he is not with his first wife and their child. he just needs to look in the mirror before he starts shouting the odds at people. i love the show i watch it all the time. but after the way he treated me my skin cringes when i just hear his name. he took the p**s out of the way i dress. he has no right. all i wanted was some help and i ended up being made to look like a right knob. sorry but after the show i hate jeremy with a passion. but everyone has there own apinion. and thats just mine!

[Han]

I take my het off to you for being responsable enough to take change at such a young age I just think you should continue on with your life plan and achieve whatever it is you wanted to in life. It is important that you do that otherwise yull live life with regret what if id done it different and you can still be a parent doing the thing you want to. 16 is a very young age and if JK treated you badly its just the way he works he doesnt pretend to be a higher power and is the first to own up to his own mistakes and problems he doesnt need a mirror to see he has made serious mistakes in life but he took charge and walked on from it and whilst im not saying your children are a mistake I am saying you need to sit and lok at life go to college achieve something to be able to provide a secure future for you all 3 kids can be expensive and there is still plenty of time to be the person you want to be.

[justme]

well atm i just want a job lol! thank you for your honesty. see if jeremy just talked 2 me the way you are i would give him the upmost respect! and just 2 say he is not the first to own up to his mistakes. he was dening it ever happened for a long time. in my eyes poeple make mistakes. but lieing about them just makes them 10 times worse. thank you for your advice and hope you live a good life:)!

[Han]

Im sure I will as will you if you make the right choices you can get finacial help if your studying you know dont give up on yourself just like that learn a trade plubing electrics something that can take you round the world. Make the most of life dont just settle you can be a better parent with just a little something behind you giving you an edge sorry that sounds awful but its true. I trust youll always make the right decisions for your family but make sure you dont ever forget yourself.  And just to touch on JKs lack of owning up to things it took me years to face myself so it is in everyone its just how you then go on to deal with it afterwards. He has done a lot of good and that can not be forgotten so he may of got you wrong but your in that 1 % good luck hun and keep us up to date will be nice to hear about your progress and if you ever need to just chat we're good for that to.

[johnfranklyn]

I've been thinking about our friend JK and the many topics covered.

I know he gets paid to do the show, but I think we have to admit that it does take a certain strength to constantly put yourself in the firing line.

He's often accurate in what he says to people and I dare say the show has had a great number of successes that we will never get to know about, mainly because blowing their own trumpets isn't what they are about.

Its impossible to please everyone, but when the show covers topics that can be quite emotive, it does take great strength of character to keep on going, especially when so many are prepared to have ago and could have ago at him when he's shopping, out for a meal etc.

Its a shame when peole cannot seperate a show from real life, I bet some actors get the same problem when they play certain characters.

[Han]

JK also does alot of work outside of the studio and I know he went to brighton last year and ran a show on the radio dealing with so many different issues and went into the deprieved areas doing good things he is a good man people just dont want to be told the things they know in themselves are true they want to be told their not like that or they really are right he just tells it how he sees it.

[suz]

Why do so many of the people who complain about JK have such poor spelling and grammar?  We play JK bingo at home - we put all his well used phrases in a hat pull out 4-6 each and who ever has scored the most at the end wins.  Phrases like "put something on the end of it",  "thats my name on the wall"  "button it and let me talk"  " anymore of that language and I'll have you removed from the stage"  etc.  Love JK and it brightens my day every day!!!!!!

[Coaster]

Some people patently do not know what the word bullying means, so I'll step in and help you from wikipedia.

Bullying is a form of abuse. It comprises repeated acts 'over time' that involves a real or perceived imbalance of power with the more powerful individual or group abusing those who are less powerful.

See a pattern anywhere?

Sorry but JK does this all the time.  He shouts, pushes his opinions on others.  He controls the edits, who goes on and off stage, who can speak and so forth.  You will not see anyone get the better of him basically as it will not make the show.  He in fact has  total control of events and when he feels he is losing slightly he has been prone to even turn to the audience for back up. (a pretty low point really).

For example "What do you think audience, put your hand up if you agree with me/is it just me?!".  As if the audience will do anything other than blindly follow the drama that is in front of them, conducted by JK.

Sorry but 251 people jeering at one person who has no control over the events at the time IS bullying however you wrap it up.  You can argue amongst yourself if people deserve it or not but that does not alter the fact that bullying IS bullying  

Why people go on the show at all in the first place is beyond me, but if they do I have two pieces of advice for them.

1) Do not go on
2) Say NOTHING at all to the 'researches'  

[amy-91]

okay il change that comment, drugs should be legeal, then that will stop underground drug deallers from selling drugs to kids, they can be monitered as to what is put in them, and an age limit can be put on them, if someone wants to try them, as long as they know all the facts then yes i think its fine, i notice someone mention leah bates, well she didnt take drugs responsibly, she wasnt taking liquids as she should, on drugs you need water, but not to much, because if you have too much you can drown yourself, if you have too little you can dehidrate andoverheat which can also kill you. i dont agree with smack or heroin, if someones going to be stupid and take drugs all the time then yes, there is obviously going to be a nock on effect, people will become addicted, but if people take them moddoratly, like people are exspected to take alcohol moderatly, then i see no reason foritto become an issue. its just hyped up by the media too much to scare people and dedicate on the bad sideof drugs.